Couples Therapy

“The less you demand total fulfillment from relationships, the more you can appreciate them for the beautiful tapestries they are, in which absolute and relative, perfect and imperfect, infinite and finite are marvelously interwoven. You can stop fighting the shifting tides of relative love and learn to ride them instead. And you come to appreciate more fully the simple, ordinary heroism involved in opening to another person and forging real intimacy.” John Welwood

Whether you are repairing a break in trust, navigating challenging communication styles, or wanting some “relationship maintenance”; seeking counseling as a couple is a step in the right direction. Couples counseling can be a space for you and your partner to explore connection at a deeper level.

My approach to working with couples is influenced by Stan Tatkin and Esther Perel. Learning about attachment styles and working to improve communication skills are key elements in work with couples. Together we can create a space to safely bring vulnerability, directness and often humor.

I work with couples in all stages and styles of relationship: polyamorous, ethical non-monogamous, & monogamous dating, engaged, married and divorced.

Specialties include:

  • Infidelity recovery & trust repair

  • Emotional affairs

  • Divorce & Conscious uncoupling

  • Porn Addiction Recovery